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Feb
01

The Danger of “Perfect”

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Today we have the pleasure of welcoming a guest blogger, Mr. Richard McLaughlin, to the Monar Musings Blog.

Rich is a Sr. Learning Consultant with the Girls Scouts America. Prior to that he worked as an instructional designer at Arthur Andersen, A TQM Education Manager at Square D Company and a Manager of Organization Effectiveness at Baxter Healthcare Corp. He also worked as an independent OD consultant for 15 years. Rich lives with his wife and 2 sons in the Princeton area of New Jersey.

 

The other day I was chatting with a client who was asking me to help make some edits to a leadership training program that needed some final clean-up.  When I asked her when she needed it done by, she said, “It’s not so important when, it just needs to be perfect.”  I remember pausing because I thought that was such an odd word to throw in there.  But, having some history with her, I’m pretty sure it was code for “don’t let anything blow back on me if this doesn’t go off without a hitch.”

What also made the comment surreal, and somewhat ludicrous, was my own worldview and experiences that say any program involving human interaction and choice is bound to have things “go wrong”, i.e. things that happen that the designers of the program don’t expect or want.  I chose in that moment not to question the request, but it got me thinking about the subtle (and not so subtle) messages people send about how neat and orderly things should unfold.  That thinking is at odds with most everything we know about how innovation and change take place inside an organization.  It is not a neat and orderly process, but quite messy and full of two steps forward, one step back experimentation.

Lately, it seems leaders from all manner of organizations are talking about how their organization needs to risk, innovate more and be willing to “embrace mistakes.”  Unfortunately, we still have a fair amount of people who don’t understand what that looks like behaviorally and end up doing and saying things that, instead, often squelch people’s inclinations to go ahead and “try something.”  I have no easy answers to reconciling these mixed messages we’re all too familiar with, but here are some things to remember if you want to travel the natural trial, error and learning approach inside your own organization:

  1. Don’t ask for upper management approval/buy-in before setting up a small “test” of your idea.  You’re bound to run into someone who wants “proof of concept” beforehand (another oxymoron that makes no sense)
  2. Run your pilot/test with a small customer segment, under the radar and make sure you manage expectations about potential outcomes.  Not asking for permission first can be risky politically, but if you keep it small enough and approach customers you have a strong relationship with, they will be more patient with the inevitable hiccups that come with experimenting and won’t trash your idea before giving it a chance.
  3. Use the positive customer response to your test to make the case for expanding your idea.  Don’t expect an internal champion to back it on faith (see point 1)
  4. Know that no matter how well your test goes, people at all levels will take shots at it because they’ve made careers on finding potential pitfalls.  Give them a sincere, “thanks for your input” and continue moving your idea forward.

The old adage is worth repeating…Never let pursuit of “perfect” get in the way of reaching the “very good.”

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Jan
20

Dilbert!

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Jan
09

New Intern at Monar Consulting

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Hello!  My name is Holly Vande Linde and I’m one of two new interns at Monar Consulting this spring. You’ll be reading some of my (hopefully) insightful blog entries and I’ll be reading your social media and learning about you at the same time.

Andrea, my supervisor here at Monar, asked the new interns to write a blog about themselves which includes answering some random questions so that we can all get to know each other better. So here we go…

1.     What was your childhood nickname and why? I was unfortunate enough to get a boy’s name as my childhood nickname: Henry.  I don’t actually remember this, but at every family reunion, wedding, or funeral, I can’t live it down.  When I was a just an infant, about 1 year old, my aunt gave me a stuffed toy raccoon named Henry.  We were inseparable! I always had him by my side.  Well, now I have thick, wavy red hair and you would never guess that I was bald-not one hair on my head- until I was three years old. So when my parents strolled me along corridors of the mall or local grocery store, people would ask, “What’s his name?”  Finally, instead of correcting everyone and going through the apparently embarrassing conversation of, “Oh no. She’s a girl…” they just to replied, “Henry.”

2.     What do you like to munch on at the movie theater?  My favorite has always been Junior Mints followed by a refreshing cherry Coke.

3.     What did you want to be when you grew up?  I wanted to be so many things growing up…I think what sticks out most in my mind is when I wanted to become the first woman president and own a motor boat.  Now I couldn’t tell you what owning a motorboat has to do with becoming president, that’s what I wanted. At this point, I think I’ll pass on a political career, but I would still love to have a boat.

4.     Who has inspired you the most in your life, and why? My grandfather has been the most inspirational person in my life. Even though he died when I was a teenager, I still reflect on the lessons he taught me. He was the most stubborn man and told crass jokes, but always encouraged his granddaughters to help anyone in trouble—and he lived by it.

He also gave me my work ethic. I remember one day when we were walking down the hallway of his office building and he pointed to janitor and said, “I respect that man because he’s the hardest worker here.”  He taught me that it doesn’t matter what I do for a job or career, as long I do it to the best of ability and take pride in my work. That moment has stayed with me.

5.     If you were an animal, what would you be? I would be a dolphin—I love to scuba dive to see all the bright colors of coral reefs and other sea creatures, plus I love the feeling of being weightless and floating in the current when achieving perfect buoyancy.

6.     Random fact about yourself. I have been known to plan meals around which condiment I was in the mood for.

 

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Dec
23

Happy Holidays!

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Happy Holiday’s Everyone! And a very happy New Year!
“Miracles are to come.”
–E. E. Cummings

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Dec
22

HBR: Management Tip for Today

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Reconnect After Giving Tough Feedback

Hearing that your performance is lacking can be harsh, even alienating. That’s why as a manager, you need be thoughtful when delivering difficult feedback to your employees. You probably know to do two things: first, articulate what your employee is doing well, and second, provide input on problematic behaviors. But don’t forget an important third step: reconnect. After hearing difficult input, an employee may avoid you or feel she can’t come to you for advice. Reestablish your relationship and reiterate what you value most. Point out her writing skills or thank her for asking tough questions during meetings. You can also check in on a personal matter: Ask, “How was your daughter’s play?” or, “Did your wife hear back about that job?” Do this at the end of the feedback session or wait until the next day. Just be sure to connect so she is comfortable continuing the relationship with you.

Adapted from Guide to Giving Effective Feedback.

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Dec
21

Harvard Business Review Management Tip

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Harvard Business Review offers daily Management Tips. Here is one that I find very important.

“Drop Your Mask and Be Authentic

Are you hiding from your employees? Too many leaders try to conceal their flaws and present a polished façade. Or they try to behave like they think “great” leaders do. When you try to be someone else, it erodes trust and effectiveness and causes people to question your true identity. So drop the mask and be who you really are. This can enhance your relationships, foster trust, and create better business outcomes. Be honest about your imperfections and ask others to help you determine how to bring more of your authentic self to work.”

http://hbr.org/tip/2011/12/21/drop-your-mask-and-be-authentic

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Dec
20

Roommate Contract

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As a senior at Knox College, I am starting to become nostalgic. Which means I am bombarded by memories from the past three years.

And one of my first memory was signing a room-mate contract when I was a freshmen. It was a very awkward experience–I barely knew my new roommate, and yet we are talking about what we expected in terms of overnight guests, cleanliness behaviors, and pet peeves. Are we going to share our clothes? Our computers? Or is that more hands off? How often do you want to clean the room? Once a week, once a month, never?

Fast forward four years later, and I am once again filling out a roommate contract. Though this time, I am the one to initiate it, and I am happily filling out exactly what I prefer and what I would like. For example, Monday through Thursday would be study hours. Or, I’m fine with sharing as long as I know beforehand.

And this got me thinking. Clear, explicit preferences and desires, and set rules agreed upon by mutual parties, ensure a harmonious experience. Not only that, it opens up the line to direct communication. And isn’t communication one of the key attribute to success–in relationships, and even in business?

Is there a way we can apply the roommate contract to the business world? And yes, we can. Out there on the web, I came across a mentor contract. Discussing when and how often you would want to talk, what kind of situation will you want to discuss, clear expectations and preferences for the mentorship experience.

But then there are manager contracts as well (though that is not the accurate name). Some career advice articles suggest meeting with your manager toward the beginning of a new job, and discussing specific expectations, goals, and preferences. How often does the manager want you to check in? What form of communication does he or she prefer? Email? Phone? IM? What are the clear expectations he or she has from you? Timeliness? Results? What do you expect from your manager?

This roommate contract ensures that a new relationship starts off with open and clear communication. It also helps ensure the success of the new relationship. And the roommate contract need not stop after the four glorious years at college. Why not apply it to post graduate life? Create  and open a habit of honest and direct communication with your supervisors, your mentors, even your future roommates or spouse.

I know that I will be a happy camper once school resumes.

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Dec
19

40:60 Ratio

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One of my main task at Monar is to be the social media expert. While I am far from a social media expert, I am quickly becoming a novice. I have been immersed in the world of blogging, sharing ideas, and using social media websites in an entirely different way than I have been before.

One of the most important tip I have learned is that it isn’t really about how much YOU put out there blog wise or information wise. It does matter, to an extent, to be recognized as a source of information. But it matters more how YOU interact with other’s discussions, posts, blogs and ideas. Bloggers and social media experts main focus is themselves, as it is with every single person on this planet. What will stick in his or her mind isn’t exactly, per se, that wonderful tidbit you blogged or wrote about, but that wonderful tidbit that you added to their thoughts, their ideas, and their opinions.

Rather than merely putting your ideas out there (which you should) what truly matters is your engagement with others. Your investment in their ideas.

After a few days with toying with  this idea, I realize that perhaps the best percentage should be like this: 40% is the information you can provide and 60% is the engagement that you give others.

What do you think? Would you agree or disagree?

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Dec
16

Dilbert!

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Dec
15

6 Lessons at Monar

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As a spinoff of my last post, I have posted 6 lessons that I have learned in my two weeks here. I find it important to seek lessons in all situation, and to remember them.

Here are 6 lessons that I have learned:

1. Oftentimes, you have to go with the flow. Make plans and goals, but be able to evolve with the situation. Be able to adapt to changing circumstances

2. The key to success is no longer you. It is all about your audience. What is important to your audience? What does your audience expect from you or your products? It doesn’t matter what you would like or how you would like it to be done. It matters what your key target audience wants in terms of deliverables. Do a needs assessment on your target audience. Always look for what is truly important to your audience

3. Networking isn’t about the quantity of people you meet and interact with. It is about the quality of those relationships. It is better to have few, but strong, relationships. The key to effective networking isn’t about you. It is about them. How can you help them? How can you add value to your network? What article or thought or idea can you contribute to his or her projects, his or her interests? Effective networking is built upon mutual beneficial interactions. But also engaged, interactive interactions

4. Learn to reflect after projects or situations. What went right? What went wrong? What did you learn from it? What should you stop? What should you start? And what should you continue?

5. The times between 1pm and 3pm is a natural low-energy period for everyone. The most productive time is late morning and early evening. Thus, it will be important to learn to manage myself around those time. I can tackle the most important tasks first in the morning, and leave the 1pm-3pm period to something less important

6. Always learn about your target audience. This can be your boss, your clients, your family. What is the best way to approach him/her. When is the best time? What does he/she expect? What are the key deliverables that is most important to him/her? Then learn to prioritize according

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